Many, many people who train for running races speak about feeling
constantly ravenous. I have loads of friends who have trained for
marathons and have gained an average of 10 pounds in the process. It’s
natural to feel hungrier when you’re moving more.
Eating well, eating in a proper calorie range for you, that is almost
all of the weight equation. Know that what you eat will influence and
account for 85% of where you find yourself on the scale. I walk because I
love it. I walk because it sets off a domino effect of healthy choices
in my life- I feel good, I’m energized, I’m motivated to do more, I’m
peppy about eating wholesome foods, I’m wanting to maintain a feeling of
health and vitality. I walk because we are what we do and I want to be
up, out, and exploring. I want to be here and there and everywhere. I
also want to listen to podcasts and call my mother several thousand
times a day. For these reasons, my feet are often sidewalking.
Honestly, it’s not the calorie torcher we hope it will be. Not
walking, not running, not elliptical-ing or even stairmaster-ing.
At most, and I’m going to be generous here: I’m burning 300 calories
on a 4 mile walk. That wouldn’t even cover the donut I want at Dunkin’
Donuts (vanilla kreme filled, thankyouverymuch). I would barely blink
ten times in the span of time it’d take me to eat 300 calories. But it’s
not about the calories I’ve burned. Because when I think about a
Snickers being equivalent to 45 minutes of moving my legs, my body, I
realize that the notion of ‘working off’ what we eat is fairly
ludicrous. It’s blown out of proportion, at the very least.
Moving is good for your heart- your whole being. Moving sets a tone
for your day, your lifestyle. The way you feel about yourself from
pushing your boundaries builds positive momentum in ways far beyond
health.
The day that I untangled exercise from caloric burn was one of my
happiest. The only way you’ll learn this as truth is to test it
yourself. You must take a risk and try a few weeks (I’d go with three)
of just walking or biking or swimming, whatever gets you going. Notice
how you feel, how much you weigh at the end of it all. Notice your
sleep, your routine, your physical comfort.
And then,
no matter if your weight is up or downAsk yourself this:
Am I more content doing this day in and day out? Do I not dread the coming days now that I know I don’t
have to pound out a set number of miles just to maintain?
Ravenous Beast Syndrome and How to Treat ItI
hear you when you say you constantly fantasize about food. What I want
you to pay attention to is this: your body is telling you something. You
are consumed by the thought of food because of two things:
1. You are hungry. You are hungry. This is nothing to fear. Nothing
to be afraid of. Nothing to get angry at yourself over. Everyone is
hungry. Everyone would like to eat a million times a day because the
thing about food is: it’s delicious.And even when it’s not delicious, it
really is. We’re hedonists at heart. We find flavors that make us
swoon and we want them over and over again. If given a choice between
hooking myself up to a frosting feeding tube or being free, I’d choose
the tube.
The key is to find satiety
for you.
2. You have a mental picture of yourself as a ravenous machine.
You’re thinking that you’re constantly hungry, and probably feeling a
little guilty/anxious/afraid of this hunger. What we focus on only
becomes larger, more meaningful to us. You must trust that, if you ate
until you were not hungry anymore, you would not be a wildabeast. You
would eventually find fullness.
When we’re hungry, sometimes we let it get so far that we feel as
though nothing, and I mean not a thing- not even 10 cakes (and wouldn’t
we love to test that hypothesis)- could fill us. This is untrue. Just
last night, I arrived home near-starving from a full day of Christmas
shopping, gallivanting, Starbucks-ing, wearing yoga pants like I
invented them. I felt certain that there weren’t enough items in my
parents’ home to satisfy the empty pit I’d become. I was sure I’d have
to eat all through the night and into the next day just to get to a
point where my body said, ‘OK, we’re all done here. We can move safely
onto dessert. Thank you for your time.’
I was certain.
We tell ourselves these stories and hold them as truths of the highest order.
We are un-fill-able. We are always hungry. Nothing is enough. Here’s what I learned at 8:30pm after eating a tub (16 thick and luscious ounces) of Fage 2% greek yogurt: I had been wrong.
I was fill-able. I was not always hungry. I had
I had had
enough.
And
I reminded myself then, that so often I think I’m right. I act as
though the thoughts I hold about myself in any given moment are the
gospel. The reality is that yes, we will be hungry. Yes, we’ll even be
starving beyond starving, thinking about eating those french fries
sitting limp and lonely on a fellow restaurant diner’s plate (
why didn’t they finish them?). Yes, we’ll overeat. Yes, we will feel stuffed. Those are truths.
And here are more:
Yes, we will be un-hungry. Yes, we will be full.
Your
body, your mind, they’ll tell you those truths when you’re treating
them kindly. They’ll be more honest when you let them say what they want
without judgment.
